Reflection of Memorial Day

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Memorial Day was great this past weekend. Normally, this is a somber time for those of us who are veterans. As a veteran I can tell you that often I do not look forward to these veteran holidays and July 4th due to the fact that it often times brings up memories of not being able to do more to serve the country, and there is survivor’s guilt knowing that so many of our fellow Marines, Airmen, Sailors, Soldiers, and Coast Guardsmen have died in the wars.

This past weekend was great though. Activities everywhere brought back a sense of nationalism that often times seem lost in the narrative of our country these days. But I’d like to speak about something different about this Memorial Day.

On my twitter feed Monday Anthony Bourdain said, “Remember the fallen, the wounded and let us make SURE we start paying some real attention to all the sufferers of TBI.” Some celebrities are understanding the effects of service members with wounds that can’t be seen.

This one statement by a celebrity was courageous in and of itself. Yes, let’s start paying attention to traumatic brain injury and other unseen illnesses. Thank you, Anthony Bourdain!

 

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Mental Health and the Media

The media, mental illness, and another shooter is securing the spotlight on a holiday that is meant for memorializing our heroes and honoring them. It is troubling and sublimely disheartening that our media focuses on yet another shooter. The most troubling aspect of this is that the media consistently no matter which shooter it is speculates that they have schizophrenia. It’s a dilemma that is all too familiar for those of us who have schizophrenia.

 

Today, I heard numerous mentions of schizophrenia on the news and none of it was good. Schizophrenia is the cop-out, the AIDS of mental illness, and the only mental illness that media ignores until it is time to bring it out in order to demonize, stigmatize, and enable the perception that the individuals with it are inhumane, cruel, or subhuman.

 

The reason this is the case is because the media doesn’t know any better. They haven’t seen the good in each of us. How we care for one another and encourage one another. How we live among them. Because it has been in the closet for so long.

 

The statistics with mental illness and violence are there for anyone that does a simple search of “Mental Illness and Violence” in Google. The statistics show that the significance of the mentally ill and violence is small and relatively insignificant. The statistics show that people with mental health problems are more likely to be victims of violence rather than become violent. But these facts will not come to light with journalism in the state that it is in today. Not unless we become our own truth deliverers by living our lives with purpose and actively showing the media that anyone can have this illness, and we are successful because we are living with it.

 

So if you’re like me and are disgusted with the way in which the media keeps bringing up schizophrenia in a negative light just keep on keepin on. It’s all we can do. Just be one with who you are and continue to be positive. Be outspoken. Only we can change this narrative about schizophrenia.